Helping Your Teen Control Stress
by Kathleen McCoy, Ph.D.
You can do a lot to help your teen cope with the stresses in his life. Here are some easy simple techniques you can put to use today:
- Spend time with your teen. Listen to him. Express love and let your child know that he is loved and valued as a person, whatever he does or doesn't achieve.
- Help your teen develop coping strategies. Exercise is one of the best stress relievers available. Encourage him to get involved or reinvolved with a favorite sport.
- Encourage him to learn new skills, such as assertiveness or relaxation techniques, to keep a private journal or listen to music.
- Encourage him to reach out to others for help in times of stress, seeing this as a way of connecting with, rather than bothering, others.
- Praise your child whenever possible, helping him to recognize special gifts and talents that may or may not be in traditional academic areas.
- Help him to feel important in positive ways as a unique individual who happens to be part of a loving family.
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Last modified: Oct 24, 1995