Better Parenting While Working Full-time
by Vicki Lansky
If you're a parent working full time, there are ways to strengthen the
bonds with your child. They won't detract from your professional life, and
they will enhance your personal life.
- Establish ritual moments; let your child know that those moments are
special and important to you. Try having breakfast together every
morning, for example, or a before bedtime snack. This is also a good
time to read together. Routines and patterns do provide security for
children.
- Make your self accessible by phone when you're at work. Talk briefly
at least once a day with your child. Use notes and letters to show your
interest and affection when you can't be there in person.
- Include your child in your work life, through pictures taken at the
office or maybe a trip there sometime.
- Once in a while, do something special for yourself and your child;
you might want to take a sick day from work and spend with your child.
Some parents call these mental health days.
- There are all sorts of ways to express love. What parents who work
outside the home lack in time, they do make up for in imagination and
love.
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Last modified: Oct 24, 1995