Safety Tips for children

Some items on this list may sound elementary, but in today's world, it is vital that families know and teach their children personal safety. Here is a list of 12 tips most often shared with parents.

• Never leave your child alone in a store, a car, a stroller, or a public place, even for a moment.

• Always accompany your child to the bathroom in a public place. Older children may want to wander off and browse alone in a mall, at the beach, etc. Do not allow this.

• Avoid buying children clothing displaying their names. A young child is usually ready to trust anyone who uses his/her name. Explain that someone who knows your name may not know you or your parents.

• Know the names of your children's friends, where they live and how to reach them. I am amazed at the number of parents who let their school-age children go off to "so and so's" house without question.

• Set up strict procedures with your child's school or child care center as to whom the child will be released other than yourself. Develop a secret password with your child as a backup safety strategy. Insist that the school notify you if the child does not show up on time if he/she walks or rides the bus.

• Be involved in your child's activities. Know the places he or she goes and know the other adults who are involved.

• If you find yourself in a position where a child appeals to you for help, be prepared to give it. Don't be afraid to send for a security guard or someone in authority. Keep an eye on the child and get help.

• Be matter of fact and calm in discussing good and bad touch and personal safety with children. Don't teach fear; teach facts and strategies.

• Your child should know his/her full name, address, phone number, 911 or emergency numbers, and know how to call you collect.

• Take a good look at your child daily and know the clothes he/ she is wearing. Take at least a yearly photo of each child.

• Be sure your child knows how to identify and go to a store clerk (never outside to the parking lot) for help if lost or separated from you in a store.

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